I like your sense of humor. I've always felt young, maybe because I don't represent my age, I'm a sportswoman and I never stop, but this year, during my preventive check-up, I found out that I have severe osteoporosis, I have the bones of an old woman, but here I am with the same optimism, taking care not to fall and continuing my life.
Elizabeth ~ I've been taking Prolia shots for osteoporosis two times a year for several years now. They cost over $3000 a shot, but insurance pays. Yikes! From bone density testing it shows they are helping me maintain. Fingers crossed there's no falling for either of us. We don't have time for that. Ha! {{Hugs}}
I agree with you, Janice. It's good for my mental health. If I had beautiful white hair, that might make a difference -- but my hairdresser says I have patches here & there. Ugh!
I am 62 and my hair is prematurely white from nutrition issues. My husband loves it - says it looks better with my skin tone than the dark brown I used for years. It's healthier. BUT most people don't look at my face - my skin is in pretty good condition - just my hair. Cars slam on their brakes when they see me waiting to cross, probably figuring they are being nice to some decrepit old lady, just like their Mamas taught them. I can but wonder what they think when I flick my hand in thanks and then jog quickly across. And a man older than me by at least a decade insists on moving chairs out of my way at church. I am all for going natural - but I think I will grow out my hair just a bit so I can style it in a more sophisticated fashion.
Oh, and I've also just told my husband the horrifying news that I want an upper eyelid lift. He keeps saying, I love you just the way you are! I'm sure he does - but I want to do this for me. I'm not going to do anything that requires general anesthesia, but I WOULD like to look as lively as I feel on the inside.
Yes, Rosalie does look stylish. I get you wanting the upper eyelid lift. Sometime I look as if I'm asleep mine have gotten so low. Hope you share how it goes if you do it. I've been tempted.
My eye doctor says he can say that it's medically necessary - then insurance covers some. I think I'll feel him out next appointment for my cataract - which never seems to be big enough to remove. Wink wink, nudge nudge, say no more. (I am probably the only person left quoting Monty Python. Sigh.)
Jan, you hit everything, the thin skin, achy joints, stiff muscles, especially the little voice that says watch your step. I have started to hear that voice everyday when I do something like use a two step stool to reach something in the upper cabinets…I used to just jump up and sit on the counter to get it…can’t do that jump so gracefully any more. What is the saying “ getting older isn’t for the faint of heart” or something like that….
Ah, Linda -- you are my soul sister. I used to climb up on the counter too & reach the top shelf where I kept good china, etc. Forget that! I'll just have to use paper plates I'm so uncoordinated now. Ha! xoxo
"Lately, I’ve been thinking maybe I should stop coloring my roots so people realize how old I am." Why? This is the conundrum for many of us who are of a certain age. I am coming to the point where I think it no longer matters what others think, or how old I am or what I do to age gracefully. I'm not trying to look younger when I color my hair, pay attention to skincare (lessening the harsh effects of aging), and do copious amounts of exercise. What I'm trying to do is stave off the changes that aren't welcoming. There are few that are welcoming (free time, experiences, being more comfortable with getting to know myself, wisdom, understanding the importance of time, señor discounts :), and the gift of discernment. I love that I have the freedom to be the best I can be if I choose to. If I ever get to the point where it doesn't matter, that's okay too.
I have a goal to stay in fluid motion, still look in the mirror once in a while and not be horrified at who looks back at me, and stay as disease free as possible. That for me is what aging gracefully is.
Yesterday it took 90 minutes in the gym to work through stiffness and pain. The gym is no longer my playground but my physical therapy session. It's all good. At the end of the day it's all about living my best life and being comfortable doing so. Great read!
I was kinda joking about coloring my hair -- just a gimmick to catch people's attention. My "problem" is people think I'm younger than I am and are always asking me to do things for them -- like organize a community-wide celebration for USA 250th Anniversary, etc. Honestly, I discovered while doing Rally In The Alley for 5 weeks recently I don't have the energy to do those any more. I finally realized at 77 -- I still can do them, but need more recovery time than I did before. Thanks for sharing. xoxo
Haha, love the gimmick. It worked! Energy is a precious commodity for all of us over 60! Thanks for letting me spew! (This aging thing is a hot topic these days, there are so many of us!)
Oh my, you nailed it. It’s great to be able to help and be in charge of projects however there comes a time when rest is essential! Keep listening to that little voice that tells you to be careful, so right!!
I like your sense of humor. I've always felt young, maybe because I don't represent my age, I'm a sportswoman and I never stop, but this year, during my preventive check-up, I found out that I have severe osteoporosis, I have the bones of an old woman, but here I am with the same optimism, taking care not to fall and continuing my life.
Elizabeth ~ I've been taking Prolia shots for osteoporosis two times a year for several years now. They cost over $3000 a shot, but insurance pays. Yikes! From bone density testing it shows they are helping me maintain. Fingers crossed there's no falling for either of us. We don't have time for that. Ha! {{Hugs}}
I have also taken Prolia and my insurance covers 75% of the shot. I will take the second dose in September.
I'm on the side of continued coloring of my hair, I just like it that way. Maybe it shouldn't matter but it does make me feel better about myself.
I agree with you, Janice. It's good for my mental health. If I had beautiful white hair, that might make a difference -- but my hairdresser says I have patches here & there. Ugh!
I am 62 and my hair is prematurely white from nutrition issues. My husband loves it - says it looks better with my skin tone than the dark brown I used for years. It's healthier. BUT most people don't look at my face - my skin is in pretty good condition - just my hair. Cars slam on their brakes when they see me waiting to cross, probably figuring they are being nice to some decrepit old lady, just like their Mamas taught them. I can but wonder what they think when I flick my hand in thanks and then jog quickly across. And a man older than me by at least a decade insists on moving chairs out of my way at church. I am all for going natural - but I think I will grow out my hair just a bit so I can style it in a more sophisticated fashion.
Check out Rosalie, leader of the Green Party in Tasmania, my soon to be (hopefully) new home! Not sure if I'll vote her way, but I'll damn sure take style tips from the lady. https://www.examiner.com.au/story/8469136/young-tasmanians-turning-to-greens-new-leader-rosalie-woodruff/
Oh, and I've also just told my husband the horrifying news that I want an upper eyelid lift. He keeps saying, I love you just the way you are! I'm sure he does - but I want to do this for me. I'm not going to do anything that requires general anesthesia, but I WOULD like to look as lively as I feel on the inside.
Yes, Rosalie does look stylish. I get you wanting the upper eyelid lift. Sometime I look as if I'm asleep mine have gotten so low. Hope you share how it goes if you do it. I've been tempted.
My eye doctor says he can say that it's medically necessary - then insurance covers some. I think I'll feel him out next appointment for my cataract - which never seems to be big enough to remove. Wink wink, nudge nudge, say no more. (I am probably the only person left quoting Monty Python. Sigh.)
Jan, you hit everything, the thin skin, achy joints, stiff muscles, especially the little voice that says watch your step. I have started to hear that voice everyday when I do something like use a two step stool to reach something in the upper cabinets…I used to just jump up and sit on the counter to get it…can’t do that jump so gracefully any more. What is the saying “ getting older isn’t for the faint of heart” or something like that….
Ah, Linda -- you are my soul sister. I used to climb up on the counter too & reach the top shelf where I kept good china, etc. Forget that! I'll just have to use paper plates I'm so uncoordinated now. Ha! xoxo
"Lately, I’ve been thinking maybe I should stop coloring my roots so people realize how old I am." Why? This is the conundrum for many of us who are of a certain age. I am coming to the point where I think it no longer matters what others think, or how old I am or what I do to age gracefully. I'm not trying to look younger when I color my hair, pay attention to skincare (lessening the harsh effects of aging), and do copious amounts of exercise. What I'm trying to do is stave off the changes that aren't welcoming. There are few that are welcoming (free time, experiences, being more comfortable with getting to know myself, wisdom, understanding the importance of time, señor discounts :), and the gift of discernment. I love that I have the freedom to be the best I can be if I choose to. If I ever get to the point where it doesn't matter, that's okay too.
I have a goal to stay in fluid motion, still look in the mirror once in a while and not be horrified at who looks back at me, and stay as disease free as possible. That for me is what aging gracefully is.
Yesterday it took 90 minutes in the gym to work through stiffness and pain. The gym is no longer my playground but my physical therapy session. It's all good. At the end of the day it's all about living my best life and being comfortable doing so. Great read!
I was kinda joking about coloring my hair -- just a gimmick to catch people's attention. My "problem" is people think I'm younger than I am and are always asking me to do things for them -- like organize a community-wide celebration for USA 250th Anniversary, etc. Honestly, I discovered while doing Rally In The Alley for 5 weeks recently I don't have the energy to do those any more. I finally realized at 77 -- I still can do them, but need more recovery time than I did before. Thanks for sharing. xoxo
Haha, love the gimmick. It worked! Energy is a precious commodity for all of us over 60! Thanks for letting me spew! (This aging thing is a hot topic these days, there are so many of us!)
Oh my, you nailed it. It’s great to be able to help and be in charge of projects however there comes a time when rest is essential! Keep listening to that little voice that tells you to be careful, so right!!
Thanks, Harriet! Mindy & I are sitting out by the pool today -- both in recovery mode. xoxo
You say it so well! Enjoy the next few weeks lounging by the pool!!!
Some day I'm going to lounge by yours. xoxo
This greying “blond” identifies 100%, but we ARE alright!
I get highlights now so people are "redirected." Or is that "misdirected"? xoxo