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Janice Walton's avatar

Yes, I remember clearly and his name - even though it was 75 years ago . I was in the 4th grade and he was in the 8th. I'm sure he wouldn't have remembered, but I sure did.

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Fraulein Zen's avatar

I was bullied in sixth grade by the most popular boy in class and his friend group. He picked a different girl every year. I'd stay late after school, but they patiently waited, then followed me home, loudly talking about how fat, ugly and stupid I was. I wasn't any of those things, but it took me a couple of decades to figure that out. And my parents didn't know what to do. He lived next door to us, his father worked for mine. They told me that was his way of showing he liked me, he was flirting like the boy who pulls your pigtails. HAHAHAHAH! Boy, that was a fun one to unpack with the therapist last year. He literally said, Umm, it DOES sound traumatic, but why does it bother you so? It happened almost fifty years ago. I sobbed, I don't KNOW why, but it does. And just like that, another layer of that horrible onion of childhood disappeared. Examined, and POOF. . . gone. (I'm restacking, but NOT sharing this note. ;)

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